Monday, August 11, 2014

June 30, 2014

Hey mom, 

So we didn't meet with Jane and John this week so I have no clue what will happen with them because i leave tomorrow morning, i have to drive 3 hours to Manchester to go to transfer meeting to then find out where i am even going, so I wont find out if they prayed or got an answer at all, so that kinda sucks. And also i have been called as a Co-District leader, whatever the that means, (a district leader is over a small amount of missionaries and he teaches a weekly lesson and takes reports of numbers and how missionaries are doing) SO THAT SUCKS!!!! i have no clue how a co district leader works me and my companion are both the district leader and so thats weird, it also means i dont get to drive all the time but i have to share driving which bites. I am really happy for tim that is awesome.
I have a good bit over 6 months, thank you very much, I have 7..... today is my 17 month mark..... weird....... it kinda weirds me out to think in 7 months i will be home thats not a long time, then i have to grow up and get a job and go to school and start actually dating and ugh crap.......
honestly i am not that at peace with them no but not much i can to do change that everything is in the past and i can change i single thing now.
Not much else from this last week at all, sorry i dont have my camera or i would send pictures i love you mom,

love elder dean


Sorry I feel a little frustrated inside today.

June 23, 2014

Hey mum

so again not much happened this past week as usual i had to go exchanges which all jack with my weeks and make them so much faster, but we had interviews with president stoker this week, and then we did really nothing major, taught Jane and John and we have come to a stand still and so this week we talked for a while and asked if they had asked God if it was all true and they hadnt and so we told them to pretty much just lay it all on the line to find a quiet place in the house and just to lay all of it before God and ask, and that also just as important as asking they had to have the intent to act on the answer despite what the answer was, they said they would and so we will follow up with that later on and hopefully they did it, cause if not I am not sure what to do. we will see. other then that not much, just a normal week.

Elder Dean

June 16, 2014

hey mum

so not much happened this week we just walked and biked a ton and tried to see people but not much luck in any regard, we biked 40 miles on thursday and then walked 15 on saturday so thats fun. but we have interview this week and i have to go on an exchange again.... but yeah love you mom hope you have a good week.

Lochlan is complaining? that sounds like so much more awesome of a summer then sitting at home doing nothing......... anyway not much this week, i was one exchange so i missed Jane and John lesson and not much else happened all week, i suck at finding. but yeah hope you have a good week love you mom

Hey since you probably cant get on i am going to go i have some things to get done love you have a good week!!!!

love elder dean

June 2, 1014

Hey mum! 

this week wasnt much at all we biked.... alot, no really we biked A LOT. on thursday we biked 35 miles in one day and over the whole week probably biked close to 55 miles because we had no miles on the car at all we came close to going over but luckily we didnt. and so that was good. we taught Jane and John, which was really good and there is another lesson set up for tuesday but i am on exchange so i wont be there. i hate exchanges a lot. but any way not a whole lot happened as usual sorry the letter sucks and is super short, but im sending a package home this week with a flash drive but i need it back i dont have the moeny to buy any more flash drives and so please actually send this one back... but thats it I really love you


love elder dean

May 26, 2014

hey mum,

So not much happened this past week really at all it was kinda just slow and not much, Jane was out of town so we couldn't teach her and so we biked around a lot and walked a ton, we have no miles for the car and so had to go walking every where, yeah sorry not very good this week but just nothing happened,

love elder dean

May 19, 2014

Mum!

So this past week was really good, we saw a huge blessing with Jane. we taught her this past week, and the entire time so far we have been teaching her she is struggling with the churches stance on homosexual relations , so after putting a lot of thought and prayer into it elder gardner and i decided that the best thing to teach her would be the law of chastity, and teach her what Gods standards are for all relationships not just homosexual and why, and so we met with her and we had a Member, Amy, (who is amazing at missionary work!) come to and so we just started teaching her and we talked a little on faith and the week previous we had taught and committed her to watch the motherhood video and we used that to move into the law of chastity, so we start teaching what it is and we talk about how there are no sexual relations at ALL outside of marriage. and how that is Gods law, we asked what she felt about it and she said she understood but still disagreed with it since her sister (who is Bisexual) seems happy in her relationship and she cant understand why God would say no happiness, and so we then explained the reason why families are so essential and that procreation and bringing children into this world is Gods first commandment. 

We told her that by us choosing to follow on those feelings of homosexuality, that we are denying other spirit children the blessings that come with a mortal body, we are deny some else the Gift of AGENCY, and that the only way for children to come into this world and be raised properly is inside of the marriage between a man and a women, and that that is why homosexual relations are bad. We laid the law down and there is no budging on it ... the worlds view may shift and change but God's laws are not and will not ever change, regardless of how the world sees it. 

Then we just sat in silence for like one to two minutes and the spirit was so strong and she sat there and almost started to cry, ( we think that the tears are the fact that she knows its true but that she is frustrated over her sister, not sure though), and so we pointed out the fact that the spirit was so strong relating it to Galations 5:22-23, i kid you not i could have cut the spirit in there with a butter knife, there was no way she didnt feel the spirit. Amy the member said she loves to come teaching with us and that we are a power house and she loves it so much!!! kinda cool. 

And so we set up another lesson and had it the next day and this one her boyfriend, John, was in town and he had been to church once and sat in on a lesson so we met at the church and again taught them both we focused more on him so as to not overwhelm Jane, and just try and see where he was at but it was a good lesson, we had cookie cake to celebrate Jane's birthday and then latter that night at like 940, John called us and he wanted to meet again this time just us and him the next day, and so we agreed and met with him the next day! It was super cool because John is a Jew so he has no real knowledge of Christ and little of the bible beyond the Five books of moses. It was very interesting because we talked for a while and he said he has never felt like what he feels like, that at first he just came to support his girlfriend but that now he really wants to know and that when we met with us he said he felt like we were the best people he had ever met before and that he felt like we would do the right thing in any circumstance, which blew me away since i WISH thats how i am.... that is how I try to be.  

We talk for awhile about why he wanted to meet and then we started to discuss the plan of salvation and Gods plan for us and he thought for a while and just said it makes so much more sense that way and that if he were God thats how he would design it, since it allows for the perfect amount of justice and mercy to be involved and that also the God we worship is a lot more loving then he thought the God of Christianity and that he felt love meeting with us. He was was just overwhelmed by the spirit saying he had a "fountain of light" inside him and that it felt like what the seven dwarfs mine looked like in Sleeping beauty, and just how he was disappointed that the feeling had left him last night and he didnt want to lose it again so we committed him to a soft baptismal commitment!!! it was really cool and both he and anna are gone for the week and both should be back next week so we can continue teaching them then!! 

Also something cool is that it was transfer weekend and so we didnt know if we would leave or not and so he was super bummed and in a prayer was like asking heavenly father if we could stay and that might be selfish but he really wanted us too and he asked for our email addresses in case we left it was cool,\ and when we found out we called him and he said that we had just made his day and was so happy!!! it was really cool!!!! 


thats it this week as far as they go, if you post this to the blog i dont know if you are but will you change names for me... thanks! also on sunday i had to sing in church. oh yeah and im staying with elder gardner and one of the sisters in the area is leaving this past week one of the sisters had hit her year mark so elder gardner and i made her a Camel cake!!! and today we have to make a music video for bohemian rhapsody for the other sister! Who bytheway also i talk to her while sister escobar and elder gardner practice portugese together and she said you sound really cool!! thought id throw that in there!!! anywho love you mom!!!!!1

love elder dean

May 19, 2014




This is a drawing of me!! Sister shipley is an artist and we had this game that all four of us would play to try and help sister escobar and elder gardner learn portugese and she drew little pictures of us for game pieces. I stuck it to my name tag because I think that is is really cool.